Monday, October 3, 2011

The Big Love of a Small Group


One of the neatest things that stood out to me during the recent passing of my Grandpa was his church-based Small Group.

From when this all began about three-weeks ago (the time when he went into the hospital for an out-patient heart catherization procedure), his small group (which ironically is not small—about 15 couples!) took turns sitting with him at the hospital, hosting late-night prayer vigils, offering my Grandma a close place to take a nap, bringing food for all his visitors, and more—much more.

It was a gentile reminder of the security, comfort, and friendship that I experienced a few years back in our small group. What began as a weekly Bible study really impacted me more than I realized.

Spending time with others—whether as a group or when we would break off into our pseudo-double-dating relationships—and trusting them with who are spiritually, emotionally, and well, even just normally in our home, yielded stronger roots and greater attachment than I realized. I guess when God brings people together (and with our former small group, it’s pretty fair to assume God’s hand brought each person in), it turns out to be a blessing.

While I don’t see my entire former small group on a regular basis anymore (life called us all in separate directions), I still have great respect and admiration for all of those people—the men and the women who are now fathers and mothers. And I have a general interest in their lives—their kids, their work, and who they have become over the past few years, as even though I’m not really close to them, I still feel the Godly connection and blessing of their support and friendship from years ago.

I’m thankful for the time with the group. Just like with my Grandpa, I know they are true prayer warriors and great friends and would be there (and are there!) in difficult times. And perhaps this is a good nudge from God (via my Grandpa) to get back into one. 

So if you are a former Small Grouper, know that you are loved and appreciated. 

-LM

2 comments:

Tina said...

Oh Lauren! We still love you guys. I love this post and couldn't have said it better myself. I do miss everyone and wish we were still all together. I look fondly on those meetings and GOD definitely brought us all together for good.

Lindsey's Whimsy's said...

Great post Lauren. Joe and I have been meaning to join a Life Group at our church... and just haven't. Thanks for bring it back to the surface and reminding me how we need to join.
Praying for you guys over the loss of your Grandpa